“So what are you saying at every moment of time? Watch it; be careful what you are saying, because your whole vast world is this inner conversation “pushed out.”
“And you can change it only by changing the conversation, because the conversation is equated with your nature.” – Neville Goddard
Hi Mr Twenty Twenty and Victoria,
I have been studying LOA for about 5 years.
I did have some successes and was mostly happy in my life. Late last year I really wanted someone to share my life with as I had been on my own for many years.
TT and V: The words people use reveal their Inner Conversations. The words we notice you using so far Linda, indicate that your Inner Conversations say, “Linda had some successes and was happy in life”.
Keep in mind, someone else – could have had the exact same experiences you have had – but have VERY different Inner Conversations. Here is one, “I can do this, and make myself happy.” Notice the difference.
For about 3 weeks every night when I went to bed I would feel the feeling of love…
…and say over and over thank you. Anyway I was at a party just before Christmas when I met the most lovely man, he was 10 years younger than me but that was not an issue.
TT and V: Sounds like you were following at least part of the formula right, and you got results. Congratulations. But again, there is a mention about him being “10 years younger”. That might not seem consciously to be in issue, but if it truly wasn’t – it wouldn’t be mentioned.
Think of it this way. You didn’t mention his hair color, his occupation, or the kind of clothing he wears. Why not? We suspect because those things really aren’t an issue – in your inner conversations. Because they didn’t show up at all here. Get it? It’s very easy to notice what someone’s inner conversations are, because they leave hints from them, everywhere.
…and he was the most amazing man I had ever met, I fell deeply in love. But for some reason I let doubt and insecurity slip into my thoughts and feelings and after 6 months he broke up with me.
TT and V: Doubt and insecurity tend to show up from Inner Conversations. Part of the problem is people generally don’t CONSCIOUSLY notice ALL of their inner conversations – so they remain victim to them. Another problem is they don’t deal with what drives them to have Inner Conversations that trainwreck their success.
Although for the past 5 months we have seen each other on and off…
…but only for a day/ night or a weekend, he has made it clear that he doesn’t want back into a relationship with me.
Also many other “seemingly bad” events have happened…
…and my financial situation keeps getting worse and worse. I have been really struggling to keep it together and carry on, tears fill my eyes and I feel overwhelmed.
I thought that he was the one…
…especially as he came to me after I had been imagining and feeling love for the weeks before I met him and I am having a hard time getting over losing him. I have a couple of questions:
Did I cause this breakup because of doubt and insecurity and fear that he would leave me?
TT and V: Of course. In your feelings, you invited him into that space, he accepted the invitation, and the physical world followed. The good news is, you’ve noticed this. And once you notice stuff like this, you don’t have to ever do that again.
I know that imagination creates reality and that you can change your circumstances…
….by feeling what you would feel if you had your desires, and I can lift myself up and feel great and happy for days at a time but then I seem to crash and my thoughts and feelings run wild, I can’t seem to stabilize and live in the end, I can’t keep up the belief and knowing and it is frustrating me.
TT and V: We see this heaps of emails like this one Linda. When this kind of pattern shows up, even after years of studying LOA or Neville, that tells us that there is additional help and structure needed – to pave the way for success.
That’s why we created Manifesting Mastery. The 90 solid days of structure that we have in that program – builds stability and success into all you do – because you are following a course of action and doing tiny little exercises each day – that we have found make manifesting easy.
How can I help myself get out of this vicious circle that I keep creating for myself…
…,how do I get to the place where I can walk in faith.
TT and V: Stick with Neville. Keep it simple. Join the program. Most of the heartache we read in emails that people send to us comes from not sticking with Neville, adding in other stuff, and not being organized and systematic.
I think what has really thrown me is that I don’t understand why…
…after imagining finding love and meeting this man who made me happier than anyone ever had and was truly amazing that I lost him. I feel like I was given a glimpse of how happy I could be with someone and then it was taken away and I don’t understand why.
TT and V: You nailed it earlier. You added in doubt, and the doubt keeps damaging you because you’ve put your success in the past in your inner conversations. I really hope you join us in Manifesting Mastery Linda. That training will help you get beyond the “inner stuff” that gets in the way, and also help you get totally rock solid with Neville. Join us.
I am sorry for this rather long and rambling email. I am just trying to get some clarity.
Thanks for your site and the help you give to so many people.
Love & Blessings.
TT AND V: Love and blessings doubled back to you.
PS: Linda joined us in Manifesting Mastery, THEN she wrote us two way cool success stories – that you’ve just got to read below.
Linda wrote us not one but TWO MORE really amazing Success Stories. You can read them here:
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“So I ask you to really apply it. Don’t think for one second that knowing what to do is going to do anything for you. It’s the doing it that matters. So, if every moment of time you know what to do, then do it. If you find yourself carrying on any negative conversation, break it, even though it gives you pleasure, as it does many people; they find such fun in being critical. They think they are alone and no one sees them; so it doesn’t matter. No one sees you? The only One that matters sees you every moment of time, and that’s your Father. He sees into the very depths of your Being, and He knows exactly what you are doing. And your world is built out of these inner conversations.” – Neville Goddard