(It all began with this email…)
Mr TT,
I realised that I have attracted parts of my ex-husband…
…in my new boyfriend.
It’s like I keep attracting men who have the same kind of situation.
What do you think about that?
For example…
My new guy is going into his divorce proceedings, and his ex is ruthless.
This is very similar to how it was when my old relationship started. Those first months were draining, and I choose not to go through them again.
With my ex, I would always try to help him, which I feel was the problem.
I kept jumping in to help, instead of letting him take care if his problems. So I don’t want to play that role again, and my new guy – well I think he can handle it on his own anyway.
The other problem is, my new fella is starting over again financially.
He is willing to let his ex be pretty well off just so he can have his freedom. My ex lost everything in his divorce, and I don’t want to repeat the same pattern of helping my new guy.
I know the universe gives you things again to learn from…
if you didn’t get it right before, to see if you can pass the test. I would like to get it right, so I don’t have to do it again. What do you think? THANK YOU! – Joan
Hi Joan,
I’m so happy you wrote to us today.
Let’s dive into a little Neville and enjoy where this takes us.
“Know that your consciousness is the only reality.”
“Then know what you want to be.”
“Then assume the feeling of being that which you want to be…”
“…and remain faithful to your assumption..”
“…living and acting on your conviction.”
“Always make it fit that pattern.” – Neville Goddard
Since consciousness is the only reality…
…and everything you experience is just you pushed out – the universe isn’t giving you anything – to see if you will pass the test. Instead…
READ THAT AGAIN!
Because YOU have given YOU another chance…
…to imagine something different, about a relationship, with a fella who is “starting over”.
And what’s way cool, is that you have ALREADY imagined you as a different Joan – than you were before.
CELEBRATE THAT!
You are choosing NOT to go down the same path. And you are seeing your new guy is DIFFERENT than your ex, that he is willing and able to take care of his own problems. That’s an excellent place to begin.
Let’s dive even deeper now…
You mentioned in the old relationship – how you tried to help solve his problems, and now this time – you want to be there for him – and let him solve his own problems. That’s really cool, because you letting him solve his problems – honors the “masculine” in him. The masculine “energy” loves to solve problems.
Imagining HIM being the man he want him to be..
…also honors the feminine in you.
Because instead of having your masculine energy pop up to help his masculine energy solve problems – you are letting your feminine be there – for you and for him.
Feminine is the NURTURING ENERGY. You get to be part of his new life, instead of being part of the solution to his old problems.
- You get to be part of his new life, instead of being part of the solution to his old problems.
You get to nurture you both, through Feeling It Real. How cool is that?
Now, let’s NAIL THE MONEY bit you mentioned….
He’s starting over with with pretty much NOTHING the physical world.
Many of us have been there.
I’ve been there, done that – and done quite well too since then – because I did EXACTLY what Neville says in the Prosperity Pack teachings.
That’s the main reason we put The Prosperity Pack together…
…to help others do, what we both have successfully done with the teachings.
Especially couples.
We live in a world where most couples struggle then split up – seemingly over money.
But in reality, the reason they struggle and split up is because of what they imagine – as true – about themselves and about money.
They live with DIVIDED MINDS.
READ THIS…
“In my own family, my brother Victor befriended a man who, at the end of his life, left a very large sum of money to him. Victor had a consuming desire to have money and he never had a divided mind. He wanted wealth more than anything and believed that money was power. He was tired of poverty and, dreaming wealth, his world was populated with people bringing opportunities to make more and more money.” – Neville Goddard from the Neville Goddard Prosperity Pack
It doesn’t matter what you and him start with…
…it matters where you LIVE FROM in imagination.
Victor lived from wealth. He never had a divided mind when it came to wealth. And so he experienced heaps of wealth and wealth producing opportunities in life.
Inside, Neville says Victor was tired of poverty..
…and he chose to start dreaming wealth.
You Joan are tired of the old way you lived and are dreaming of something much better. Something much more lovely and empowering. Hold your man in that space, teach him what you are learning in the programs, and watch how the two of you together move mountains.
Many blessings to you,
Mr Twenty Twenty and Victoria
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So helpful! Diving in to the place of BEING in a relationship you want to BE in, not the one you came from! Bravo!! Love it
As usual, with unerring accuracy, just what I needed reminding of today! Thank you from my heart
This is just exactly what I needed to hear. Just this evening I was talking with a friend, (crying on his shoulder, actually) about how certain things in my life have always been and I don't know HOW to be different. I don't know how to be in a love relationship and never have. Now, I'm so reminded of Neville's teaching and will, right now, get clear on what the relationship of my dreams really looks like so that I can feel it real. Thank you!
Hi Indi!
Try this on too. How would you feel, if you knew?
Odds are you would feel a new level of something like peace, of love, of acceptance.
Explore those feelings and discover your ideal – and watch your what you want become rock solid real.
Blessings,
TT and V
Whoorah!!! It's fun creating your own life. The interesting thing that I have found out in the last year. Is that it always, always is way better than when I imagined it. It's fun when you start living the dream! But even way more fun when the dream starts living you!. Twenty is the best! For anyone sitting on the fence about whether or not you can change your life. Get off the fence and dive in!! Head first!! The faster you dive in , the faster things change!! Life has never been this much fun!! And that's the way it's supposed to be!! Fun! Everyday.
Blessings to all!!
hi mr. twenty twenty
can we use the revision method for this kind of situation. and how often should one do the revision technique for manifesting like meeting a women , or closing a sale
Hey Mahesh,
I’m working on a Revision project, and will include your request in it too.
Short answer, Revision is about changing “the past” (even if it just happened) so that it doesn’t repeat. Of course, this also invites what just happened – to change. That’s a bonus. Let me know if that makes sense.
Blessings!
TT and V too
Thanks Greg!
It’s a gift to work with you mate, exploring what’s possible and how cool life is.
Blessings to you!
TT and V and E
Hey listen, I gotta share this: Now that I am a happily married, blissful old ‘geezerette” of 70, here on Union Square, with hubby…one of my revision/congrat conversations is, in my imagination, to ‘give a cocktail party..” The guests are ALL THE VERY WORST RELATIONSHIPS I HAD FOR THE PAST DECADES. First, I have them come in the door, and as I greet them I’m dressed and jeweled to the nines: even the creepy, nasty ones who treated me like crap – they all hug me.. Much joyful laughter and admiration. They congratulate me on my successful book, just optioned as a major film, and are amazed to see me still looking so great at 70. One or two of them express regret, sighing… they ‘never realized I was such a cool woman..” And I see some envy, in a good way which… is so fun. The whole point of this exercise is to stop re-hashing ‘what these lousy guys did to me back then’…revision alters the energy, making sure it doesn’t toxify, ripple outwards… and yuk up my ‘now’..