Dearest TT and Victoria,
For years, really I can say decades, I longed to find THE ONE. Over time, with so many disappointments in my past, I decided it was better to insulate myself from future pain by denying what I wanted most, a man whose love was so profound it would alter my life. Yet I knew he was out there, somewhere, looking for me too with the same deep longing. Still, given my track record I wondered where and how would we ever find each other.
Then I started studying Neville’s teachings. I can’t remember which book I was reading but in one chapter he describes a “feel it real” session about finding love. He talks about relaxing into the state of being happily married, about twisting an imaginary wedding band around the ring finger and feeling the joy of a perfect union. That was so powerful I started immediately.
A few months went by and nothing much changed until one day I was invited to a party. The hosts were life-long friends and the guests, too, had known each other an equally long time. When Jimmy walked in I was thrilled to see him. His wife – also a friend – had passed away the year before and I hadn’t seen him since. We started talking in the kitchen and we laughed and we talked and laughed some more until it suddenly dawned on us that everyone else had left. Three hours had gone by and we didn’t have a clue.
Today we are inseparable. Our friends roll their eyes when they see us coming because we can’t stop touching and kissing each other. Now I have to tell you something remarkable. During my feel it real sessions, a scene I created was one in which this man became friends with my father. But my father passed away three years ago. Here’s the miracle, Jimmy’s father and my father grew up in the same neighborhood and Jimmy worked in the jewelry store his father owned. He not only knew and liked my father, he remembers dad coming in to buy a diamond ring for my mother. The same diamond ring I wear on my left hand today.
Words cannot express how deeply grateful I am for Neville’s teachings and how special I think the two of you are for offering your expert guidance, compassion and love. I would say to anyone who reads this, anyone who may have lost hope, if you practice this teaching with all your heart, you will come to know that the miracle is you.
With much love,
Gail
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Dear Gail, enjoy your moment in time. Everything here changes!!! "Man is made for God, and Woman is made for God." Grow together 😉
I wanted to say: may both of you grow… not as one clump. Don't get lost in your private heaven.
Hi Gail,
Thanks for your story. One quick question – how did you visualise ‘this man’ becoming friends with your father, when at the time you didn’t know what ‘this man’ looked like? How did you make the scene vivid? Or was it more based on creating the ‘feeling’ that he was friends with your father, and you were able to do this without a detailed image?
Also, you mentioned that your father passed away 3 years prior. In your imagine sessions, was this friendship developing in the past, or did you simply focus on the scene occuring in the present?
Thanks,
Joe
Cool groovy,kind of love story…the best! Enjoy, congrats!
Love is the one thing that we all need…
Scott
I enjoyed reading this immensely, as I am also wanting to be married to the love of my life.
Several days ago I was to have a coaching call with Mr. Twenty Twenty, and I had intended to ask how I could speed up the process of meeting her. While I was waiting for the call, I read the daily Neville mailing and it was about adding audio to my imaginings. Right away I knew this is what I needed and I started to get goosebumps. Then I clicked on the link in the email and it was about….wedding vows! And as I listened, I had a sudden vision of a particular woman I want to meet standing in front of me and hearing the words "I now pronounce you man and wife" And for that brief moment, I WAS THERE!! Now it was more than goosebumps, I tingled all over and had tears in my eyes. So quite suddenly I KNEW this woman and I will be married.
Wait, it ges better. The following day I browsing an online dating site I had just joined, and lo and behold, her picture and profile showed up in my search. And as I read, I KNEW how perfectly matched we are for each other, and that it is inevitable we will be together. I feel that as real as the chair I'm sitting on as I write this.
This KNOWING…..it hit like bomb going off in me, so strong that there's no question any more. I could literally feel it all over my body and I'm SURE this is the wish fulfilled and I have it. Right NOW!
What a wonderful story.
What a great story Gail! And you too, Phil! She’s coming! What was the link you are refering to? I would like to read it! 🙂
Cheers,
Thank you for your blessings and good wishes Holger, they are welcomed and appreciated 🙂
How very thrilling for you Phil, I'll be watching for the next installment!
Here is the link Roman:
http://freeneville.com/neville-goddard-mastermind-january-2013/
Many blessings mate,
TT and V
This is such a great story! Thanks for sharing 2020 and Gail.
Gail, can you share a little more about how you “saw” your soulmate in your session? When I do this I focus on the feeling and leave the image blurry (since like you I’m not focusing on a particular known person) except for a few traits. I was curious about your process.
Gail, thanks for the encouragement. This morning I did several visualizations and each time it was like I was in two places at once. In one sense I knew exactly what my physical surroundings were, and at the same time I was equally with her. So I am kind of treading the line between Feeling It Good and Feeling It Real, with progressively more and more emphasis on Feeling It Real. And this is after only a few days.
Great questions Joe. When I pictured this man, I saw him standing at my front door and though I couldn’t see his face I felt him radiating warmth and love as he looked into my eyes. I pictured him coming into the living room as my dad stood up to greet him. Both men expressed joy at knowing and seeing each other again. Between them, their strongest bond was their love for me.
As for the question “Your father passed away 3 years prior. In your imagine sessions, was this friendship developing in the past, or did you simply focus on the scene occurring in the present?” The feeling was one of timelessness. Logically it couldn’t happen in present day but in truth, spiritually speaking all creation is complete. Neville talks about this, about how in the 3D world we appear to be moving along a time line but true reality is that we can intercept the past and revise it. Miraculously, events will bend themselves around it. TT and V can elaborate.
Yes V, I understand. This was hard for me to master. I would say that I learned to feel the relationship more than picture the physical being. For example, in one of my sessions I saw myself standing at the kitchen counter preparing food. This man would walk up behind me and wrap his arms around my waist, then kiss my neck. I couldn’t see him but I most definitely could feel both his body and his love. This technique worked very well because I literally had my back to his face and his face became a non-issue. By the way, Jimmy does this all the time 🙂
Thanks for your response Gail! I do that except mine is as I fall asleep feeling his arm my waist and kissing my neck. Hearing your success story motivates me 🙂 I love the kitchen scene too and will be using it. I’ve had many successes but anticipating the “biggies”.
I know its different for everyone and really depends on gestation- but just to satisfy my curiosity, how many months did it take before you met him at that party?
Hi V! It took about 3 months for Jimmy to come into my life. During those 3 months the visualizations became an unconscious action. Over time they became an assumption.
I hope you don’t mind me saying this but I noticed in your comments that you were anticipating the Biggie. In my experience as long as I “anticipated” something it placed it in the future rather than me being one with it in the present moment. That shift from ‘there to here’ made a huge difference for me. It was the difference between being stalled – still looking for The One – and finding Jimmy.
I wish you all the best V. Stay with it, practice the teachings that TT and V post on this web site and you will have your Love. AND I want to hear all about it!
Thanks for your insight Gail! I know what you mean about anticipation v. knowing. Its something that I’m working on constantly but I will get there- that feeling of knowing has been a little harder for some of the more emotionally invested wishes because of my persistent reasoning mind. I can’t wait to share my story too!
hi Gail,Phil …
i read all ur post,,,which inspired me in real time now,, i just have one question,, i am in love with this friend of mine…
can i picturise and imagine and feel the same situations as all of you have mentioned,,like i always feel him sleeping beside me ,feeling his arm on my west,,i am married to him,,will that help me as well,,,,
i would love to know it from you all,,:)
thank you and god bless you for ur success in love 🙂
Hi Dolly, I just now read your post – sorry for the delay! In my experience, trying to direct the outcome, that is outlining who, what, when etc. – or in your case focusing on your friend as “the one” – can actually block what you truly want from coming to you. Your desire is to find true love, one that is mutually nurturing and supportive and passionate, right? As Neville teaches, we have to feel-it-real first. Be conscious of what you are doing though, feel the state, not the person. (This is a really fine point and one that I’ve often missed.) Occupy that state, that is, imagine yourself adored, appreciated and treasured…what does that feel like?
Before I found Jimmy I kept torpedoing my dream by putting a height or a profession or a hair color on the love of my life. If he didn’t have a prestigious job (I’m embarrassed to admit this) I didn’t consider him. Thank goodness I knocked that off – Jimmy drives tractor trailers! In my feel-it-real sessions I would stand at the kitchen sink and feel his loving arms around me, his kiss on my neck, the ring on my finger. As it turned out, this was powerful because I couldn’t see him! All I had was the feeling, not the physical image.
Get that feeling and LIVE as if it were so, all day every day, and he will find you. The tough part is it may or may not be your friend and you have to be willing for it NOT to be him. The Law will bring him to you and the Law has surprising, brilliant ways to deliver – beyond our wildest dreams. 🙂
Hi Gail,
You nailed it.
Focusing on the person making you happy BLOCKS the state from making you happy.
Once the state makes you happy, the right person (maybe him / maybe someone even better) can’t help but join you.
Blessings,
TT and V
Thanks TT! Now on to manifesting more money – just ordered the Prosperity Pack. Mastering money has been a life long struggle and I intend to change that one too 🙂
Big love to you Gail!
Looking forward to your emails and adventures!
TT and V
Hi Gail,
This is a lovely story. I had lost all hope of finding THE ONE in my life till I stumbled upon your success story. This has re-instilled hope in me.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience!
May you have a great life with Jimmy. 🙂