“I enjoy your sight and have purchased two of your packets. I have always loved Neville and can very much appreciate what you offer. My mother has dementia and has been living with us for about 4 years. People with this affliction can get combative and suspicious and hateful. Throughout this process with her I have always suspected that it does not HAVE to be this way. What are your thoughts on my visualizing her improving more all the time and imagining only normal conversations with her.” – Theresa
I have taken care of elderly people with dementia and alzheimers, and I know that it can be rough. However, remember what Neville says, “Every time we exercise our imagination lovingly on behalf of another, we are
literally mediating God to that one”.
If you imagine your Mom’s case is hopeless, that wouldn’t be loving – to you or to her. Taking the time to imagine her at peace while she prepares for the next stage is a gift to you both – so do it and enjoy every blessed moment you have with her.
I am not able to envision an over night change- but do you think I should accept the condition she has chosen as the Abraham teachers say about this- a way my mom had chosen to eventually die or dare I envision this changing? It is so painful for me at times and other times she is fine. I know it helps when I get myself calm before I go to her room in the morning – but dare we see her sharp and aware or is that interfering with what I am told is her chosen path to make her exit? I would so very much appreciate your thoughts! – Theresa
You share a great example Theresa as to why we don’t mix Neville with “channeled teachings”, why we simply teach to FOLLOW THE FORMULA. Neville was a real life human, with the challenges and opportunities we had. He also didn’t teach new age crap like it is possible for you to interfere with her “chosen” way to die. We don’t choose how we die, we choose what to accept in our lives – and we choose what seeds we wish to plant in our lives and in the lives of others.
So many new age teachings like that not only block your blessing (in this case – loving peaceful time with Mom), but they also take away opportunities to simply be loving. Love your Mom, and remember – your gift of love to her – just might be the example she needs to remember and to explore the power of lovingly manifesting for herself and for others during the next phase of her journey.
Many blessings to you,
Mr Twenty Twenty and Victoria
PS: Follow The Formula. Give up all “new age” junk. Your life and the lives around you are well worth it.