Hi Mr. Twenty Twenty,
My uncle is 93 years old, he’s an amazing guy with a great sense of humor and very youthful in spirit. He very much wishes to be able to walk again properly without a walking aid and he would love to have a young(ish) and very attractive girlfriend. He’s not interested in someone his age, I’m afraid. I guess he’d love someone in her 20ies or 30ies, but I really can’t imagine this to be possible, so I thought maybe someone in her 40ies, 50ies or 60ies might be ok as well – I’m not sure though.
Anyway, Neville says “all things are possible” and yet I’m having a hard time assuming my uncle telling me he now has the girlfriend of his dreams. How can I shore up my belief? A couple of weeks ago I started imagining him walking towards me without the aid, since this seemed to be a good place to start, but so far nothing has changed. Sometimes Neville says that things have their own appointed hour of “externalization” /manifestation, but I’ve also found quotes where he says it’s up to us to choose when we want something to happen and he even says: If you would now assume you are what you want to be and remain faithful to it, the very longest stretch given in scripture for its realization is three days.
In the case of my uncle I would obviously like to realize his wishes as soon as possible. So my question: Do you think it can be done and how can I go about it when it seems or feels rather hard to believe in the possibility of these wishes to be fulfilled. Looking forward to your answer – Rose
Let me answer with a personal example, when I was a little boy, I wanted to walk on the moon. Today, I don’t fully believe that I will walk on the moon. And odds are, I won’t. I could invest quite I bit of time attempting to change that belief, and imagine the state of the wish fulfilled, but it’s not something that I find truly possible for me. I do fully feel that I will walk, fly, and maybe even scuba dive in some of the most interesting places on Earth, and I have already done much of that. And probably, I will write about them as well, sharing the adventure of how fully feeling something as real, opens the door for it to happen in your life.
Your Uncle, may or may not walk again properly, and may or may not get a girlfriend who is in her 20’s or 30’s. Personally, right now, I can’t imagine that for him either, that’s just where I am this morning. That doesn’t mean it’s not possible, it just means that I personally can’t imagine that, right now. But what I can effortlessly imagine for him is EXCELLENT HEALTH and with his winning attitude – he just may walk again freely, and I see him in a loving relationship that truly satisfies. I can align with that FULLY AND EFFORTLESSLY. And when I do that, I have a peaceful inner silence.
When I experience the teachings like this, I grow in faith. I get that even though I may never walk on the moon, I am perfectly happy to share the adventure of a lifetime with my lovely wife, and my friends around the world. And that is what I truly want, and have imagined for a long time.
Mr Twenty Twenty
PS: Maybe shoring up your belief means finding what you can truly believe for him today. When you find that Sweet Spot – what you can fully believe for him today – that can grow, evolve and change into something better and better – but it begins with what you can believe today.