“I’d love to get a phone call (a forgiving) phone call from my girlfriend, so we could get back together. Haven’t had physical contact with her or heard anything like an email to a phone call from her in over a month.”
“I’d like to get a phone call from her or an email or a text message, so I could feel okay, but I feel inclined to reach out to her and see how she is doing.”
“I’m doing my feel it real sessions and walking in my State. That should be enough, but sometimes I just want to hear her voice physically.” – Brian Jeffreys
Hi Brian,
Let me ask you a question, “what is it you REALLY want?”
(Because if you don’t NAIL your end here, your BRAIN will block your blessing.)
Notice how that feels… You can’t help THINKING about it, and you can’t REALLY FEEL it real.
Let me ask…
Do you want a phone call from her, a conversation with her, or a relationship?
Our guess is your are trying to imagine all three (since you mentioned all three.
If you step back for a second you’ll notice, getting a phone call and having a conversation are two things that are natural – when two people are ALREADY in a relationship.
So to reduce the anxiety and amp up your results – narrow your focus.
Focus FROM- ALREADY being in a happy – loving relationship.
What could you SIMPLE EXPERIENCE in imagination – that would imply you are ALREADY in a loving – active relationship?
What feelings would you have?
Who would be happy for you?
“But I’ll tell you one thing, do not concern yourself with the means. Always go to the end. Dwell in the end, and you will hurt no one. But if you try to devise the means, you are, well, messing the whole thing up…. You want to be happily married. All right, go to the end. You are happily married.” – Neville Goddard
Today’s Take Away: It’s very normal to…
…imagine one thing, that leads to the next, which leads to the next, which eventually leads to the end result.
The problem is…
…imagining like Brian mentioned above, something that indicates a BEGINNING, or how “you got back together” leads to confusion about what to do or not do.
The OTHER PROBLEM is, imagining the STEP BY STEP can also create ANXIETY for some people (which stops manifesting cold) and thinking WAY too much for others (which again – takes you out of the state of FEELING – and this will delay your blessings.
Today’s Take Away: Part of the solution is to really make sure you are feeling from the END.
Being happy in your relationship, in this example.
SOLID GOLD HERE: The other part of the solution is to…
…eliminate the patterns that cause the anxiety and stress you’ve been feeling when thinking about this and trying to imagine it.
PEEK AT THIS – The Anxiety Eliminator.
Dive in, keep feeling it real, and thank you for writing today mate. Your question and this exploring will bless many in learning how to Feel It Real.
Many blessings,
Mr Twenty Twenty and Victoria
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Hi Mr Twenty & Victoria
It’s so amazing I am nearly at the end of the course! I’ve already decided to start it over again once I have completed it and dive deeper. I’m curious to see what comes up and really keep using the tools. This is my new way of life!
Still playing, exploring. Revision is a tool i am exploring and using and I loved the lesson on don’t wait.
Exploring states and identity is something I am increasingly interested in and so I know I am doing Manifesting to the Max next.
And I really appreciated Victoria talking about her garden and hearing how her breathing and voice changed. Very powerful.
Thank you again for being you and creating this course. I am grateful I dove in and took it.
With gratitude
Suzanne – Day 84 – ManifestingMasteryCourse.com
Awesome!!!!
Thank you So Much for these reminders!!
🙂
Dear TT & V
The way this is explained is so beautiful.
Dear Brian
I have been in your situation and I totally understand what you are goin through.I was having a tough time when I tried to do the how like thinking about phone call / email / msg. Ultimately when I reached the end that all I want is a happy relationship and did my feel it real sessions accordingly did everything fall in place. The emails,phone calls , msgs , watsapp , meetings all happened along the way.
God Bless
Thank you for this!
And thank you TT for the post!
I love a lot of what Neville says, but this advice points to an area I am very uncomfortable with. The issue is trying to make others do what "I" want them to do. This is an unwarranted influence and according to all I have learned from my inner and outer teachers is a very BIG mistake. I believe that everyone has the right to be free and make their own choices. This is a very precious gift we have been given. So if we try to impose our will on others and to influence them to do what WE want them to do, we infringe on their very precious personal power of free will and choice. I have been taught to in general send up the prayer of what I want…in this man's case–a loving relationship with a woman. But WHO chooses to be that woman to him is up to God and the individual women who might also be interested in him. His former girlfriend might decide freely to be that for him again, but it might just as easily be a new woman. The "face " of that woman should be left blank. And similarly, when praying for another Neville suggests that we picture their face and their compliance with our wishes for them. BUT I have been taught and feel much more comfortable with picturing their face and then asking them if they want me to pray for them or send healing thoughts. They do answer and one must abide by their acceptance or refusal. This is spiritual ethics and is extremely important.
Attempts to control another person through mindpower don’t work unless that person is open to it (agreeable to your suggestion).
It’s like any type of suggestion: a t.v. commercial can’t force you to buy the advertised product; political propaganda can’t force you to think and vote a certain way — you choose to GO ALONG with it or not. It’s the same with mental suggestion: it is not possible to have influence over anyone who doesn’t accept it.
One reason for energizing the end result, and NOT trying to control people or the way it happens, is so your mental suggestion can be picked up by anyone who is on a similar wavelength and is happy to GO ALONG with it.
Hi Tee,
I suspect you might be new here. Neville doesn’t teach (and we don’t either) to try to control anyone. Here’s a great link to that subject: http://freeneville.com/force-or-power-influence-or-love/
On the “they have to be open to it” – well, here’s an article that might give you more of a Neville spin on things.
http://freeneville.com/how-to-defend-against-negative-imaginings-free-neville-goddard/
Many blessngs,
TT and V
Hi Brenda! Neville always taught to never attempt to influence another. We too are very uncomfortable with influence, and notice in all manifesting – it's more of an invitation – than a demand or sneaky influence. The quote above references Neville saying to imagine you are married, not to any specific one, but married. Thank you for sharing and caring too.
thank you mr 2020 for sharing these eternal truth with us ,it is priceless it worth life neville teaching have changed my life forever pls keep-up with the good work i love you..
Thanks for the reply. I will see if I can find the post and reply, but I'm pretty sure the inquirer was asking how to get their former partner back and the answer did not address the problem with that.
My understanding of 'free will' after having read lots of things on manifestation is it's really the level of consciousness with which you use your imagination to create what you want. If you don't use it consciously, you will create by default. I don't really believe in spiritual 'ethics' per se, because as Neville says, this law works as impersonally as electricity. It's really your choice to become aware of your power and use it accordingly. Again, as Neville says, people pass beneath the radar of others who DO know this sort of stuff. That said, I wouldn't pick on some poor, beleaguered man and get him to fall in love with me if there wasn't anything there in the first place. I experiment within my own consciousness on what I want to see happen – it's just a happy coincidence that other people do reflect what I imagine of them….as do I in their worlds, too.
Totally agree! Mr. TT has already dealt with that issue in the Manifesting Love Action Pack:
http://freeneville.com/manifesting-love-free-neville-goddard/
I haven’t bought it myself, but I have watched the introduction video and read the first advice which is really the most important one: simply imagine the person you love being happy without adding any context to it! That will ensure you get the best possible relationship with said person taking into account each other’s feelings. If the other person shares one’s feelings, things will move swiftly toward a beautiful love story. If not, then one should at least enjoy a serene, friendly relationship with that person and find one’s own true love with someone else.
Imagining others happy is actually the best possible advice in all kinds of relationships: friends, colleagues, family! That’s what I’d been doing wrong my whole life: I felt so miserable and needy that I hated everyone else who seemed to have it better than me and showed little compassion toward my plight, so I wanted them to suffer as much as I did. Now, I realize how I wasted so many wonderful opportunities both sentimental and professionnal, because of such negativity.
Nice Christophe!
Almost everyone – misses this part – that you mentioned.
And it’s where the GOLD is:
“I have watched the introduction video and read the first advice which is really the most important one: simply imagine the person you love being happy without adding any context to it!”
That program is ACE — and it produces the most lovely and amazing results – – but THAT needs to come first.
Blessings mate!
Also, imagining that person as happy, whether they are with YOU or not, is truly the way to go. Lordy, If I had a fifty dollar bill for every time, in my life I used to try and ‘make things to go my way’, including ‘get Bill/Jack/Alan/Mike” to fall in love with me.. I could probably buy a house and pay cash!!! And, not to mention the energy drain of trying to keep that up..Now, I simply imagine the end…my wish is fulfilled (I have a really nice husband, BTW, so no need for that. And come to think of it, Rick ‘showed up in my life’ at the right moment). I sink into the good feeling: I am in the situation I imagine, doing what I do, having what I have, being congratulated for having it..and hugely enjoying the whole enchilada. I imagine my recycling business welcoming a constant flow of new items, and every single day when I go out, ‘coincidence’ brings me things, exactly what someone else needs. Magical? Nope, imagining the wish fulfilled and – feeling it real seals the deal. Each, and every time. Right ON time!!
Perfectly explained and worded! Thank you so much!! This was very helpful!!